Sex resources Women
Yes, you with the 7 inches of length. And you with the 4-inch girth. And yes you Mr. 9-inch anaconda. Even you, Tuna Can Sam!
Here's the thing about your penis: it's the only one you've got and you're the only dude that can use it. "Just right" doesn't exist - every woman and man is different and has different factors that determine what an ideal size for them might be. And even then, the person it's attached to matters far more than the size of his member. Douchebags with big dicks are still douchebags.
There's so much in this world worth stressing over, don't let your dick be a source of anxiety. Learn your size, but more importantly learn what to do with that size. A dude with a small dick and an amazing foreplay game can rock someone's world while a big dick just whaling away on every orifice it can find will just lead to disappointment for everybody involved. Sex is much more than just putting your penis inside of a warm, moist, flesh hole - it's the most intimate act two (or more!) people can engage in, treat it as such. Have fun, make your partner smile and laugh and moan and cum all over the place.
Ask yourself: if fingers, lips, and tongue can give earth-shaking pleasure to a woman, how is it possible the much larger four-inch or 10 centimeter penis can’t?
The size of your dick doesn't have an impact on whether sex will be good; it changes what good sex looks like.
Your dick size is fine and it doesn't matter what anybody else has. There will always be bigger dicks and smaller dicks, but you can't use those dicks. Get to know yours and everything you can do with it.
And bring lube.
One thing for sure is that without intimacy of some kind sooner or later your relationship will start having issues. But, maybe the fact that you are aware of your partner's limitations it could be your turn to direct your sex lives into the right direction. But to get started, these guidelines may help you:
1) Tell your partner you need to talk and decide on a time you can have an uninterrupted conversation (not while you’re getting ready for work in the morning).
2) Once you have their full attention, present the facts as clearly and non-judgmentally as you can (“We haven’t had sex when I am horny, despite the few times I’ve tried to initiate it,”. Some people might be very aware of their behavior, but others might not. Give your spouse the benefit of the doubt and see how they respond before assuming they’ve been aware of their behavior and indifferent to the damage it has caused.
3) State the emotional impact their rejections have on you using "I statements" (“It makes me feel extremely unattractive and undesirable,” “I feel hurt and my self-esteem has taken a real hit,” or, “It makes me feel insecure, angry, and resentful.”). Here again, it is important to give your partner space to respond; while some may be aware of the impact of their behavior, others might not be.
4) State a clear request for change (“It isn’t fair to me and I don’t want to keep feeling like this,” “We’ve spoken about this before, you make some efforts but they don’t last. I need you to take this very seriously,” or, “I want us to discuss this honestly and find solutions together.”).
5) If your partner gets defensive or is reluctant to change, ask them to explain how they see things, what suggestions they have for making things better, or whether there are things they are upset about that are motivating their behavior.
6) Discuss specific steps you both can take to improve the situation. Do not assume all the changes have to come from your partner; they might have feelings of their own that are underlying their avoidance of sex and intimacy. Try to agree on one small step you can both take right away to signal your intention to work on this issue. A good place to start could be scheduling intimate times like for massages, not necessary detailed but some form of fulfilling touch like these vagina massage techniques and penis massage techniques
7) Request a periodic check-in to make sure any efforts or changes are maintained (“I want us to check in on this every few weeks to make sure things have improved,” or, “I would like you to take the initiative to check in with me so I know you care about whether I’m feeling better about this.”).
Good luck!
Initiate the session to request your needs
Texting can feel a bit safer and it lets you be yourself. You can text whatever comes to your mind, even if you might hesitate before saying it out loud.
And don't be above using it to initiate sex.
You could tell him "I could use a pussy massage tonight ."
The time has come, what do you actually say to make him understand you want him to give you oral sex? This takes us to the next step;
On requesting the oral sex
Try a more playful approach and tell him that you want to play a game where his challenge is to get you as wet and aroused as possible. The rules: He has immediate access to every inch of your bod, but may use only his hands and mouth to touch you. Encourage him to linger at your favorite hot spots by being vocal when he's rubbing you the right way. Once he sees the results of his efforts (a horny-as-hell girlfriend), in future he would be the one to suggest frequently.
On being comfortable in your own skin
Please know that your genitals are beautiful just the way they are. Seriously. Your boyfriend would be choosing to go down on you, so he obviously feels the same way.
If it makes you feel more comfortable, you can always try wiping down with an unscented baby wipe beforehand (but again, this isn’t necessary; you taste just great!).
Also to help you relax once he is going down on you tell your boyfriend that you’re having a hard time letting go during oral sex, and ask him to tell you what he likes about going down on you. Hearing him say, “you taste so good” or “I love the way your skin feels on my mouth” might help you feel more relaxed when he starts working his way down beneath the covers.
I’d also suggest gently requesting that he stop asking the dreaded “what do you want me to do?” question. I don’t think there’s any other question more universally despised during sex! Tell him, “when you ask me that question, it just sends me up in my head and makes me feel like I’m doing something wrong.”
Suggest trying the A/B testing method together, or come up with sneaky ways to let him know that he’s on the right track (for example, you’ll pull his hair when you want more pressure, or you’ll stroke his shoulder when you want him to go slower).
Have your boyfriend try two different licking techniques (like side to side, then up and down), then tell him which one feels better. Then have him try two different levels of pressure, or two different speeds. Picking one option out of two is a lot easier and less intimidating than trying to come up with your own instructions out of thin air!
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A study found that the longer men spend licking a woman’s vagina, the greater the volume of sperm they produce per ejaculation.
In other words, men shoot a bigger load as a by-product of going down on a gal.
Therefore, they also have a better chance of impregnating her.
It makes sense that our prehistoric ancestors might have developed an affinity for “dining on the Y” as there were evolutionary benefits to doing so.
Those who performed the most cunnilingus most successfully passed on their genes.
Also vaginal pheromones give men more sexual stamina.
Another study found evidence that when a man smells a woman’s vaginal scents, his testosterone levels increase.
Olfactory stimulation occurring during cunnilingus is…rewarding to the male, e.g., acting as a releaser semiochemical that enhance men’s sexual stamina.
In short, giving a gal head enables a guy to have better erections and last longer in bed.
Yet another reason why our human ancestors were drawn to cunnilingus — and why men today still love going down on women.
In ancient times, women who suffered from anxiety, depression and sudden mood swings were sent to the doctor. After an "examination", it was concluded that they suffered from "female hysteria".
To help combat this disease, a series of treatments were created, including "pelvic massage", with the aim of achieving what was then called "pelvic paroxysm", i.e. an orgasm.
Soon the treatment became popular and so many women went to the doctor to receive this treatment that a special device had to be created.
This artifact emitted rhythmic vibrations and massages, and in the beginning, well-to-do women or women from good families kept them in their homes in case an "episode of hysteria" occurred.
This is how one of the first vibrators in history was created. A device that is still used today and that has clearly taken on a purely sexual connotation.
It is interesting how the vibrator emerged from an apparent disease and how the treatment quickly became popular.
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Men feel spontaneous desire, which causes arousal. We all understand that, and unfortunately, we have assumed that women are, or should be, the same way. Recent studies have found that this is not the norm for all women, with many never experiencing desire first, and others only feeling desire before arousal some of the time. Please understand this – for many (maybe most) women, desire is triggered by arousal, not the other way around.
What this means is it is normal for a woman rarely or never to feel desire or a “sex drive” apart from sexual activity. For many the norm is for foreplay to start arousal, with that arousal resulting in feeling desire. Now, do you understand why foreplay is a must for women?
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